E65 The Healing You Want May Cost You A Habit You Love

Are you asking God for transformation, but hoping it doesn't require your participation? 

Have you ever prayed for healing while still clinging to the very thing that's hurting you? It’s like asking God to fix your burnt hand while keeping it in the flame! In this episode, Cosmo and Suzi unpack a powerful quote from Breaking the Patterns That Break You by Tori Hope Petersen: “We cannot beg God to heal us while staying loyal to the patterns that hurt us.” You’ll laugh, reflect, and maybe squirm a little as they dig into how our habits can block the very healing we’re asking for.

Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode invites you to look honestly at the spiritual, emotional, and relational patterns you’re holding onto. Through relatable stories and solid biblical truth, Suzi and Cosmo connect the dots between spiritual disciplines, renewing your mind, and trusting God in the middle of the storm—not just for the outcome, but for transformation along the way.

This conversation will challenge you to go deeper in your faith walk, stop self-protecting, and start asking God not just for change—but for your part in it. From forgiveness to community, from busyness to brokenness, this one is for anyone ready to move from hurting to healing in Christian relationships.

Romans 12:2…Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.