E63 Boundaries vs. Control: Which One Are You Really Doing?

Why do we think boundaries are about making others behave when they’re actually about our choices?

Ever set a boundary only to feel like it didn’t work? Maybe you told someone not to do something, and they did it anyway—so much for boundaries, right? Turns out, a lot of us have been thinking about boundaries all wrong! In this episode, we break down a powerful yet simple truth: a real boundary is something you will do, and it doesn’t require the other person to do anything. 🤯

Join us as we unpack what healthy, biblical boundaries actually look like in friendships, dating, marriage, and even work relationships. We’ll share real-life stories, Scripture-based wisdom, and practical ways to set boundaries that strengthen relationships rather than create unnecessary conflict.

Plus, if you’ve ever struggled with people-pleasing, overextending yourself, or feeling guilty for saying no, this episode is for you! Boundaries can bring freedom, peace, and deeper connections with the people we love.

Hebrews 12:11...No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.

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