E60 Lies, Blame, & Manipulation: Spotting Toxic Traits

What’s the difference between a toxic person and someone who’s just having a bad day? Let’s clear up the confusion!

We’ve all been there—stuck in a fog of confusion, questioning if we’re the problem, or if something deeper is at play. In this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking discussion sparked by Donald Miller’s insights on identifying toxic people. But here’s the real question: how do we separate truly toxic behavior from normal conflict in relationships? And more importantly, how do we handle it in a Christ-centered way?

Join us as we explore the key traits of a toxic person, contrast them with healthy conflict, and unpack what the Bible has to say about it. We’ll talk about setting godly boundaries, guarding our hearts, and making sure we’re not unintentionally the difficult ones in our own relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this conversation will help you discern, grow, and navigate relationships with wisdom, grace, and truth.

At the heart of it all, relationships are about loving one another as Christ loves us. But what happens when love isn't reciprocated? When manipulation, deceit, and blame take center stage? Let’s talk about what it means to build godly relationships where both people take responsibility, honor one another, and reflect the love of Jesus. If you’ve ever struggled with relational confusion, this one’s for you!

Romans 12:10... Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.

Original Reel can be found here.