E57 S’mores, Silence, and Showing Up: The Power of Being Present

Do you know when to listen, when to help, and when to just make s’mores?

How often do we rush to fix, solve, or advise when a friend is hurting? In this episode, we take a heartfelt and humorous look at what it means to truly be present in Christian relationships. Inspired by a poignant Instagram reel from psychotherapist Matthias J. Barker (@matthiasjbarker), we explore how simply showing up—without judgment or solutions—can bring comfort and healing to those we love.

Sometimes the best ministry is as simple as s’mores and silence. 🍫🤫🔥

We dive into biblical insights like Job’s journey with his well-meaning (but flawed) friends, unpack Galatians 6:2 and Philippians 4:6-7, and reflect on how carrying each other’s burdens fulfills the law of Christ. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, learning to "just be" in the midst of someone’s struggles is a spiritual practice that grows empathy and strengthens connections.

Tune in to be encouraged, equipped, and anchored in God’s love as you navigate the messy, beautiful work of walking alongside others.

Philippians 4:6-7…"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

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Original reel can be found here.